It’s OK to Say No During Sex

Without an apology, reason or excuse offered

Photo by Nicolas Dmítrichev on Unsplash

The absolute truest truth I know this Wednesday is that it is OK to say No during sex.

I don’t need to make excuses.

I don’t need to offer apologizes.

I don’t need to give you a reason.

You are not entitled to me, my time, my work, my body…

No one is entitled to anyone else.

If I want to say no…

…it is ok for me to say no.

Even if we are in the middle of the hottest sex either of us has enjoyed in a long time and you are literally *this close to an orgasm.

Not then?

Nope.

Reclaiming Our Voices

It is OK to say NO during sex for any reason, at any time.

If I don’t want to continue having sex, I am not obligated to continue having sex and neither is anyone else.