Last summer I learned my husband had been engaging in all of these behaviors, and more. It broke my heart. We’ve both been in therapy since then to heal ourselves and our marriages, but I’m not sure I’ll ever feel emotionally safe with him again after reading the things he said to other women, some of them about me. Some days it feels impossible. Some moments it feels like for sure we’re gonna get through this and be awesome…

But, mostly, I feel hurt and scared and alone in my marriage …

Some days I think finding out he’s had just plain old sex with someone would be easier to heal from than those emotional betrayals.